High self esteem is sexy! Self esteem to the extent where it intimidates or belittles others obviously is counter productive. On the other hand doings things for selfish reasons and everyone wins. If you are happy everyone around you is happy.

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Build your self esteem by being totally aware of where and who you are. Touch things, think things, and to things for yourself to make yourself feel good. The taking touch is a great thing and benefits everyone involved. Allow yourself to connect and enjoy everything that is in your presents and surrounding you. Living with prosperity is not just about money it is about a total life experience. Be aware of beautiful desirable things, saver them,and enjoy them. Because you are doing something for yourself doesn’t mean that others won’t benefit from it, they will and they do.

When doing great positive things for yourself you would probably be surprised how much you complement people. By observing how they look, then telling them how their looks make you feel, that benefits them. By your acknowledging what they do or what they have done and how it can or will benefit you, that makes them feel good.

Encourage others with confidence, they will experience your great self esteem also. Giving is such a great thing for everyone. I bet you didn't think that you could give by being a little selfish. It's all in the core word communication, learn how to tell people how you feel.
Brad West ~ onomoney